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婉拒邀请 — Declining an Invitation

礼貌地婉拒社交邀请 This scene includes 16 dialogue turns across 2 conversation paths, helping you practice with 朋友.

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Polite Decline · 礼貌婉拒

basic

朋

We're all going hiking this Sunday. You should come with us!

我们周日都去爬山。你也一起来吧！

You

Oh, that sounds really fun, but I actually can't make it this Sunday. I have a family video call planned.

哦，听起来真的很好玩，但这个周日我确实去不了。我计划了跟家人视频通话。

💡 先表示兴趣（'that sounds fun'），再说原因，这样拒绝不会显得冷淡。', casualVersion: 'Ugh, I wish! But I've got a family call I can't skip.

朋

No worries at all! Family comes first. Maybe next time?

完全没关系！家人最重要。下次吧？

You

Definitely! Please count me in for the next one. I really want to go.

当然！下次一定算我一个。我真的想去。

朋

For sure! We usually go every other weekend. I'll let you know.

没问题！我们通常每隔一个周末去。我会通知你的。

You

That would be great. Send me some pictures from the hike!

太好了。发些爬山的照片给我！

朋

Will do! You'll be jealous when you see the views, haha.

一定！等你看到风景你会嫉妒的，哈哈。

You

I'm sure I will! Have an amazing time, everyone.

我相信会的！大家玩得开心。

Rain Check Decline · 改期婉拒

intermediate

朋

Hey, want to grab coffee tomorrow afternoon? There's a new café I want to check out.

嘿，明天下午去喝杯咖啡吗？有个新咖啡馆我想去看看。

You

I really wish I could, but tomorrow's packed for me. Can I take a rain check?

我真的很想去，但明天我排得很满。能改天吗？

💡 'rain check' 是非常地道的美式用语，表示'这次不行但改天一定去'。

朋

Of course! No pressure at all. When works better for you?

当然！完全没压力。你什么时候比较方便？

You

How about Thursday? I'm free after 2 PM. Would that work for you?

周四怎么样？我下午两点之后有空。你行吗？

朋

Thursday's perfect! Let's do 2:30. Same café — I'll send you the location.

周四正好！两点半吧。同一家咖啡馆——我把地址发给你。

You

Awesome, it's a date! Looking forward to trying that new place.

太好了，就这么定了！期待去试试那家新店。

💡 'It's a date' 不一定是约会的意思，朋友之间也常用，表示'就这么定了'。

朋

Me too! Their pastries are supposed to be incredible.

我也是！据说他们的糕点超好吃。

You

Now I'm even more excited. See you Thursday!

现在我更期待了。周四见！

Key Phrases · 关键短语

you should come with us

你也一起来吧

no worries at all

完全没关系

family comes first

家人最重要

every other weekend

每隔一个周末

I'll let you know

我会通知你

you'll be jealous

你会嫉妒的

grab coffee

去喝杯咖啡

check out

去看看/探店

no pressure

没压力

when works better

什么时候比较方便

let's do 2:30

就两点半吧

supposed to be

据说/应该是

Cultural Notes · 文化注释

•先表示兴趣（'that sounds fun'），再说原因，这样拒绝不会显得冷淡。', casualVersion: 'Ugh, I wish! But I've got a family call I can't skip.
•'rain check' 是非常地道的美式用语，表示'这次不行但改天一定去'。
•'It's a date' 不一定是约会的意思，朋友之间也常用，表示'就这么定了'。

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FAQ · 常见问题

What do you say when "declining an invitation" in English?

You can start with: "Oh, that sounds really fun, but I actually can't make it this Sunday. I have a family video call planned." (哦，听起来真的很好玩，但这个周日我确实去不了。我计划了跟家人视频通话。). Tip: 先表示兴趣（'that sounds fun'），再说原因，这样拒绝不会显得冷淡。', casualVersion: 'Ugh, I wish! But I've got a family call I can't skip.

What will staff/locals say to you during "declining an invitation"?

You may hear: "We're all going hiking this Sunday. You should come with us!" (我们周日都去爬山。你也一起来吧！).

How many English phrases are in this "Declining an Invitation" scene?

This scene contains 16 dialogue turns across 2 conversation flows, covering polite decline, rain check decline.

Are there cultural tips for "declining an invitation" in English-speaking countries?

先表示兴趣（'that sounds fun'），再说原因，这样拒绝不会显得冷淡。', casualVersion: 'Ugh, I wish! But I've got a family call I can't skip. 'rain check' 是非常地道的美式用语，表示'这次不行但改天一定去'。

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